Breaking Down Trust 

Recently, I encountered the huge difficulty of someone taking my student loan away and telling me afterwards. Therefore, I become super sensitive and defensive about the money flow. I had a heart clutch because I think my trust has been abused.

I don’t believe anyone is always honest I do feel it’s important that our actions toward each other are characterized by empathy and respect.

If trust has broken down, can it ever really be rebuilt? Or is it something that once broken is gone forever?

This was a BIG CHALLENGE for me especially how to clam down with complex emotions and react politely after I knew the face that something unreasonable has happened. My conclusion is that no matter what situation when I encounter, DON’T PANIC and DON’T BE ANGRY. The emotion triggered will not help anything, but turn the situation in the opposite way. This is the top priority that I am learning and adjusting now.

Second, I think respect is super important. The reason that someone broke my trust is because her attitude is poor after she took my student loan away. The doctor told me that it’s because she “feel shame and and turns into angry”. I understood. Therefore, I have to say that respect is essential and attitude is deciding.