Yesterday, I attended my first graduation as a homeroom teacher. Nothing different from the final rehearsal, but I was touched during the time of teachers’ wishes to graduates. Surprisingly, I burst into tears because I was so touched with mixed feelings that I could be there as a teacher. The scenes that popped into my brain were how I walked through the difficulties and why I wanted to become a teacher. It’s been close to 20 years… since I started dreaming. I am proud that I chased my dream for long and insisted until the last minute.
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Getting better
Since I got COVID, things seem no stop! I need to drink chicken essence every day. After conflicts with Rebecca, I had a hard time. In addition, I fall down last Friday, and therefore, I can’t wash my hair; I went for exercise and my spine hurt. I need the injection and rehabilitation. I was really worried that, due to my illness, it will be very difficult for me to walk on stage.
Yesterday, I finished teaching math and KB. I felt a great release! Today, we will have a final rehearsal for tomorrow’s graduation ceremony. Then, we will have a period of English and done. Although I still need to work next Monday for kindergarten, I feel like I just need to be natural and as time goes on, it will be alright.
5 THINGS EVERY TEACHER NEEDS TO HEAR RIGHT NOW
Here are 5 things that every teacher needs to hear right now.
YOUR JOB MATTERS
Sometimes, with all of the ridiculous expectations, it can feel like you’re no longer teaching the way you want to teach. It can also feel like your passion and creativity has been squished into a tiny box. Even (maybe especially) in these times, it’s helpful to remember that your job matters. You are making a difference in the lives of children every single day. When the outside world just doesn’t get it, that doesn’t change the fact that your students’ lives are improved as a direct result of your hard work. Keep that in mind when the going gets tough.
YOU ARE DOING A GREAT JOB
Despite what the news and politicians might say, the majority of teachers are putting for a tremendous effort every day to educate the next generation. I have met very few teachers who aren’t doing a great job. Most teachers, you included, are doing a fantastic job. Is every day perfect? Of course not. However, you ARE doing great.
GOOD ENOUGH IS GOOD ENOUGH SOMETIMES
I think something that took me a really long time to understand as a teacher is this: most of the time, “good enough” actually IS good enough. Not every lesson is fancy and perfect, and that’s okay! Sometimes you have a rock star lesson, but the majority of teaching is showing up, doing your best, and then repeating that 180 times each school year. You don’t have to have a fancy song or cute activity every lesson.
YOUR MENTAL HEALTH AND FAMILY NEED TO COME FIRST
It might be easier for me to say this as a teacher working in a country that actually values work life balance, but it’s definitely true. It’s so easy as a teacher to feel this pressure to give our all to the classroom. Of course we need to work hard, but we can’t sacrifice our mental health or our family for what is, at the end of the day, just a job. It can be hard to put your self and your family first, but it’s absolutely vital. The tricky thing is that, at least in the US, it’s not easy. We need to continue to push for legislation that supports teachers and education so the burden isn’t solely placed on teachers’ shoulders. Until then, remember that good enough IS truly good enough, don’t spend unnecessary money on your classroom, and don’t live your life at school.
THANK YOU
Thank you. From one teacher to another, thank you. This is the last thing every teacher needs to hear. You are in it every day, doing the work that so many can’t and won’t. There’s a big reason that the retention rate of teachers is so abysmal. This work is hard and it’s not for the faint of heart. If you’re still here, you deserve a big thank you (and a pay raise, but unfortunately I can’t make that happen). So, again, thank you, teachers. You are making a difference and your work matters for our future.
So, there you have it. 5 things every teacher needs to hear.
Reference: https://www.myprimaryparadise.com/2022/09/26/5-things-teachers-hear/
Tough it out & Get rid of her
Unfortunately, I had a very poor relationship with R. She suddenly changed her attitude. She usually blames me in front of kids or does it with external meaning. (指桑罵槐實屬儒夫行為) Also, she checked with the kids and called the parents without checking with me. It seems like our interaction just maintains for the sake of not breaking up superficially. I just wanna get it through and get rid of her ASAP. I learned to be preserved and prevent myself from the fake people. (防小人)All she did was trying to make me feel bad for myself or for what I did. I hate playing this terrible game! 人還是要單純善良!
Reset Button on a Bad Day
Yes, this is what I need right now. I had almost a morning of teaching kids and they were crazy. One kid accidentally broke my toy hammer. Generally, the class was chaotic. They were easy to be disrupted. Therefore, I really need some strategies to get through my day.
Here are a few strategies to get your class back on track when the day gets crazy.
1. A two-minute tidy
Ever look up and wonder when a herd of buffalo stampeded through your classroom without you noticing? Paper and pencils are all over the floor. Jackets have fallen off the backs of desks. A chair has tipped over. Supplies are lying around. Backpacks have drifted into the aisles. Your classroom isn’t just messy. It’s quite possible a safety hazard. That’s when it’s time to stop everything and call for a two-minute tidy. Set a timer or play some fun music, and tell your students that at the sound of the alarm or the end of the song, you expect to see the floor clear, desktops tidy, and everything in its place. It’s amazing what kids can accomplish in a short time. And that quick burst of energy followed by the soothing sight of a well-ordered environment can have a tremendous calming reset effect on everyone.
2. A call for silence
When my son was in preschool, his teacher began every story time with a moment of silence. One student was asked to hold up the silence wand to get everyone’s attention. Then the child in charge would turn the wand over. Everyone had to be perfectly quiet until all the glitter floated to the bottom. The effect was nothing short of magical. The children weren’t just quiet. They were mesmerized and calmed—which made proceeding with story time much easier. For older children, an hour (or five-minute) glass would likely have the same effect. A set of these two-minute timers could also be a great way to help individual students or an entire class learn to sit still and be quiet.
3. Shout it out!
On the other hand, sometimes what kids need to calm down isn’t silence, but to let go of some frustration. When you sense your class is struggling with a lesson or overwhelmed with the hecticness of the day, try letting them blow off some steam vocally. It’s probably best to give the other teachers in your hall a heads-up and/or take this activity outside, but try giving your class a word, phrase, or sentence that they can shout to unleash all their pent-up frustration. WE DO NOT LIKE SPELLING TESTS! THIS DAY IS TOO LONG! WE NEED A BREAK NOW! Or simply, Arrghhhhhhhh!!! Seriously, try it. You and your kids will be amazed at how good it feels.
4. Sing it like you mean it
When it comes to banishing a bad mood, nothing, absolutely nothing, works better or faster than singing. I admit, that sometimes it can take some cajoling and positive peer pressure to get everyone to participate, but when an entire class sings along to Sweet Caroline, Party in the USA, September, I Will Survive, or any of these other school-appropriate songs, your entire day will definitely get better.
5. Try some art therapy.
I have zero artistic talent, and I am obsessed with this website. There are dozens of drawing and coloring projects for kids arranged by subject, grade, season, or artist. So tell your class that if they are going to act like little monsters, they can just draw them. Or maybe you want them to be as sweet as kittens or as quiet as mice. Whatever you decide to have them draw, they will have fun, and you will get a few minutes of blessed peace and quiet and some cute drawings to brighten your classroom. It’s a win/win!
6. Fill each other’s bucket.
There are a lot of resources available to teach students to be bucket-fillers. But my favorite activity is to simply give each child a bucket, have them put their name on it, and then pass their papers around for the other kids to write down compliments. Of course, before returning students’ papers, I take them up and read each one to be sure no one has written anything unkind and to be sure every child gets plenty of positive comments. But this has rarely been an issue. Every time I have done this my students have risen to the occasion and found something kind to write about everyone in the class.
7. Reset the mood with the power of a story.
Kids of every age love a good story. On rough days, why not treat your students and yourself to a little downtime to reset with a good book? Better yet, dim the lights, let everyone find a comfy spot, turn on an audiobook, and let someone else do the reading so you can relax too.
8. Declare a get-it-done hour.
The school day is busy. Sometimes classroom stress is the result of everyone feeling overwhelmed. On particularly rough days, there is nothing wrong with taking a break from your usual routine to reset and let everyone do the things they need to do–clean out their binder, study, organize their notes, or maybe even just read. And this goes for the teacher too. Organize your desk. Grade some papers. Return some emails. Any lost instruction time will be more than made up for when both you and your students are less stressed and more productive.
As teachers, sometimes we can get so caught up in sticking to the schedule or covering all the material that we don’t even realize our nerves are shot and our class is unraveling until somebody (maybe the teacher) loses it. Before that happens, it’s better if we find ways to hit the reset button to improve the class’s mood and stress level. When we do this, everyone is happier and more productive.
reference: https://boredteachers.com/post/reset-button